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		<title>Happiness &#8211; A Matter of Focus</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Imagine for a moment you have been given a task. That task is to count the number of times five basketballs are passed between a group of people who are running around each other. Assuming that the exercise requires your &#8230;<p class="read-more"><a href="http://www.moonsbeing.com/2012/05/20/Happiness-A-Matter-of-Focus/">Read more &#187;</a></p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Imagine for a moment you have been given a task. That task is to count the number of times five basketballs are passed between a group of people who are running around each other. Assuming that the exercise requires your full concentration, what is the chance that you would notice a gorilla walk right into the middle of the group, beat it&#8217;s chest and then walk away again? Should be obvious right?</p>
<p>Well according to a study conducted at Harvard university, in some circumstances as little as eight percent of people notice the gorilla!</p>
<p>The reason is that our perception often has a lot to do with what we are focusing on, and less to do with what is really there. In order to process complex information we have to delete most of what goes on around us. For example, before now did you notice how your shirt felt against your skin? When was the last time you blinked?</p>
<p>So the </p>
<p> question is, if you are pessimistic &#8211; if you focus on what is negative in a situation rather than what is positive &#8211; what will your reality be? It is highly likely that if you focus on bad, you will see and hear the bad and miss the good.</p>
<p>Being pessimistic is not the same as being &#8216;realistic&#8217;. It is stripping your life of pleasure. Looking for the good in every situation has the opposite affect. The more good you look for, more more good (and happiness) you will get.</p>
<p>(C) Copyright Petra Rankin 2005</p>
<p>Petra Rankin used powerful techniques to beat her own long-term depression. She is now dedicated to teaching others how to be happier and lead more successful lives. Her first book <em><a target="_blank" href="http://www.briefbooks.com.au/freebook.htm">Fast Track Your Success and Happiness</a></em> is due to be launched in September 2005 and is currently available for download as a <a target="_blank" href="http://www.briefbooks.com.au/freebook.htm">free e-book</a> instead of paying $19.95. Limited time only!</p>
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		<title>To Catch a Thief: 6 Steps to Eliminate Your Time Stealers</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 19 May 2012 04:06:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Step 1 – Know Your Thief What are things that lead you to say, “I don’t have enough time”? What is it that you are spending your time on that you feel is preventing you from achieving all that you &#8230;<p class="read-more"><a href="http://www.moonsbeing.com/2012/05/19/To-Catch-a-Thief-6-Steps-to-Eliminate-Your-Time-Stealers/">Read more &#187;</a></p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>Step 1 – Know Your Thief</b></p>
<p>What are things that lead you to say, “I don’t have enough time”? What is it that you are spending your time on that you feel is preventing you from achieving all that you want to achieve in a day or week? Is it email, too many or unproductive meetings, interruptions, work overload or too many priorities?</p>
<p>Create a list &#8211; and be honest. When you know specifically, on what and how you are spending your time, you can then decide whether it’s contributing to what you want to achieve or not.</p>
<p><b>Step 2 – Stakeout and Surveillance</b></p>
<p>For 3 consecutive working days, analyse how and on what you spend your time. On a sheet of paper or in an excel sheet, write out timings starting from when you start work, say 0830, in 30 minute slots, until the time you finish your day.  For example</p>
<p>0830 &#8211; 0900</p>
<p>0900 – 0930</p>
<p>etc</p>
<p>1700 – 1730</p>
<p>For each 30 minute slot, write down exactly how you spend that time – no cheating!</p>
<p>After the 3 days, analyse where your time was spent and if there are any patterns.</p>
<p><b>Step 3 – Identify the Godfathers and Small Timers</b></p>
<p>What are the top 5 things that you spend time on that you feel is unproductive time? From your list in step 1 and analysis in step 2, rank them with “robs most of my time” at the top to “petty thief” at the bottom.</p>
<p><b>Step 4 – Pick Them Off 1 by 1</b></p>
<p>Decide whether you are going to tackle some of the “small timers” or whether you are going to go straight for the eliminating or neutralising the “godfathers”. Are you motivated to change the easy things first and get some quick wins or are you so frustrated by certain things that you must attack those first? Whichever you choose, commit to 1 thing at a time and achieve it.</p>
<p><b>Step 5 – </p>
<p> Keep Up the Pressure</b></p>
<p>Once you have tackled 1 or 2 time stealers review how and on what you are spending your time again. Have you filled that time with more time stealers or are you now finding that your time is being spent more productively? Consistently reviewing where you are focusing your time will help your awareness and awareness is key in enabling further change.</p>
<p><b>Step 6 &#8211; Install Your Alarm</b></p>
<p>Prevention is better than cure. You have neutralised your time stealers and you now need to put and “alarm system” in place to make sure that you are not caught out in future.</p>
<p>Plan to review how and on what you spend your time weekly and monthly. Ask friends and colleagues to be your “neighbourhood watch” and tell you when they think you are focusing your time on areas that are unproductive for you or don’t contribute to the achievement of your goals.</p>
<p>Time is a finite resource and how you utilise that resource efficiently and effectively can generate a productive, fruitful and happy life or an unproductive, stressful and frustrating life.</p>
<p>The key to productivity is knowing on what and how you need to be spending your time in order to achieve your goals; whether they are work objectives and performance targets or personal goals to create the right work life balance for you.</p>
<p>© Beverley Hamilton 2005</p>
<p>About the Author</p>
<p>Beverley Hamilton is the author of <a target="_blank" href="http://www.takecontrolofyourtime.com">Take Control of Your Time</a>: 7 Straight Shooter Strategies for Success</p>
<p>She is also MD of <a target="_blank" href="http://www.onestepfurther.co.uk">One Step Further</a> and is a Business Coach to Independent Business Consultants. To learn more, subscribe to <b><i>Quickstart</i></b>, her free weekly newsletter for consultants who want to grow a profitable business consultancy and still have time for a life. Go to <a target="_blank" href="http://www.onestepfurther.co.uk"><b><i>Quickstart</i></b></a> You’ll also receive a complementary 5 part ecourse <i>Discover The 5 Most Common, Incorrect Assumptions Independent Business Consultants Make</i></p>
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		<title>Ten Ways to Eliminate Guilt From Your Life</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 May 2012 14:50:00 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>1. Say “Yes” Only When You Want To</p>
<p>You want to please everyone, but you end up disappointed in yourself. Don’t say “Yes” unless you absolutely want to. If someone tries to make you feel bad about it, remember that they are more concerned about their own agenda.</p>
<p>2. Think Before You Speak</p>
<p>Before you communicate, think about what you are going to say. Make sure you communicate clearly so that the other person fully understands the information you want to share. It’s better to prevent an argument or disagreement than to try to retract what you have said.</p>
<p>3. Establish and Enforce Personal Boundaries</p>
<p>Make sure that friends and family are clear on what you will and will not accept from them. Be specific about your boundaries. Don’t assume people can read your mind. Speak up about anything that displeases or offends you.</p>
<p>4. Have a Sense of Humor</p>
<p>Some people use sarcasm to make other people feel bad intentionally and unintentionally. Be witty when someone uses sarcasm to make you feel bad. Laugh it off or make a joke about it. Have the upper hand in the situation.</p>
<p>5. Have Self Respect</p>
<p>Your opinion, time, and values are important. If you don’t let other know that you have respect for yourself, how can you expect them to respect you? If you don’t value what you have to offer, no one else will.</p>
<p>6. Keep Your Promises</p>
<p>Unless you have an emergency, do what you say you’ll do to avoid any conflicts later. </p>
<p> Honor your promises. Be fully committed to the promise by prioritizing what is most important to you. If you promised to visit your grandmother, do it at a time that is convenient for you.</p>
<p>7. Take Care of Your Feelings First</p>
<p>Do you put other people’s feelings first? Each time you do, you give away a little of your personal power and self respect. By protecting someone’s fragile ego, you are neglecting your needs.</p>
<p>8. Don’t Make Assumptions</p>
<p>You don’t know for sure what someone else is feeling or thinking. The only way to know is to ask. Don’t be so sure that people are going to judge or condemn you.</p>
<p>9. Forgive Yourself</p>
<p>We all make mistakes. Give up blaming and berating yourself. If you hold on to them, it is difficult to move forward and let go of the past.</p>
<p>10. Do Your Best</p>
<p>You can’t please everyone. Sometimes you can’t win, no matter what choice you make. You don’t need to justify your choices. If you’ve done your best, that’s all that matters.</p>
<p>Marie Magdala Roker is a Personal Development Coach an Author of Successful Thinking for a Successful Life: How to Banish the Unhealthy Thoughts and Habits That Limit Your Success. Her Successful Thinking™ program is an affordable coaching resource that offers support and encouragement when there are roadblocks to success. You can find out more about the program at <a target="_blank" href="http://www.thinkandbesuccessful.com">http://www.thinkandbesuccessful.com</a> or sign up for her free Be Inspired newsletter at <a target="_blank" href="http://www.smartbeecoaching.com">http://www.smartbeecoaching.com</a></p>
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		<title>More Precious Than Gold</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 May 2012 16:17:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[In this world there is something more precious than gold. Diamonds? No. Platinum? No. Some other precious metal? No. Of course, it would depend who you might ask. Many would mention the alternatives I&#8217;ve already given. If you asked a &#8230;<p class="read-more"><a href="http://www.moonsbeing.com/2012/05/17/More-Precious-Than-Gold/">Read more &#187;</a></p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this world there is something more precious than gold. Diamonds? No. Platinum? No. Some other precious metal? No.</p>
<p>Of course, it would depend who you might ask. Many would mention the alternatives I&#8217;ve already given. If you asked a drowning man he would undoubtedly say a life-buoy. If you asked a thirsty person stranded in the desert they would say water. And if you asked a person grieving over a lost loved one they would answer in that manner. All would be correct according to their own particular circumstance.</p>
<p>The value of something is in its scarcity. It&#8217;s a matter of simple economics really. Things that exist in abundance are relatively cheap. Things that are rare are more expensive. Unique items are very valuable indeed. That is how value is measured.</p>
<p>However, going back to my opening statement, what would be more precious than any of the above? I would suggest something that, once spent, can never be regained. It&#8217;s something that we all have but it runs out second by second. Time.</p>
<p>Time is the most precious commodity we have. Like everything else, it is its scarcity that increases its value.</p>
<p>Think about a child who is five years old. That child has a very shallow concept of time. If we double the age to ten time is again relatively abundant. Doubling the age to twenty a person begins to understand its concept.</p>
<p>If we double that person&#8217;s age to forty time begins to become more and more valuable. At the age of eighty, if one lives that long, time is at a premium. It becomes very precious indeed.</p>
<p>If an eighty year old person had all the money they could </p>
<p> ever spend what do you think they would buy, if they could? Time!</p>
<p>We only have one life. We cannot buy time. Shouldn&#8217;t time be the one thing that we value more than anything else? And yet, so many people elect to waste time.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t let the wastage of time rob you of the things that you really want to do. The biggest robber of time are the words: &#8220;I&#8217;ll do it later&#8221; or I&#8217;ll get it done next week&#8221; or &#8220;there&#8217;s plenty of time.&#8221;</p>
<p>There is never a better time to do something than right now!</p>
<p>Procrastination and laziness will always ensure that you waste opportunities for achievement.</p>
<p>Use your time wisely. You will never get it back. There is no such thing as eternal youth. One day your time will run out. It would be such a pity for that to happen with a mind still full of wasted opportunity.</p>
<p>I heard somebody say once that &#8220;it is better to wear out than rust out.&#8221; Going to the grave with the &#8220;music still in you&#8221; would be such a tragedy.</p>
<p>Time will always be your enemy &#8211; unless you make it your friend. Keep learning, keep working and keep achieving. Do it now!</p>
<p><b>About the author:</b> Gary Simpson is the author of eight books covering a diverse range of subjects such as self esteem, affirmations, self defense, finance and much more. His articles appear all over the web. Gary&#8217;s email address is <a href="mailto:budo@iinet.net.au">budo@iinet.net.au</a>. Click here to go to his <a target="_blank" href="http://www.motivationselfesteem.com/zenspiration.html">Motivation &#038; Self Esteem for Success</a> website where you can receive his <b>&#8220;Zenspirational Thoughts&#8221;</b> plus an immediate FREE copy of his highly acclaimed, life-changing e-book <b>&#8220;The Power of Choice.&#8221;</b></p>
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		<title>Why Creative Visualization Works</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 May 2012 07:23:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Experience has shown that creative visualization works. It is quite possible to prove that circumstances and events follow thoughts. Take any situation or happening in your life, and go back to find what kind of thoughts preceded the event. You &#8230;<p class="read-more"><a href="http://www.moonsbeing.com/2012/05/17/Why-Creative-Visualization-Works/">Read more &#187;</a></p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Experience has shown that creative visualization works. It is quite possible to prove that circumstances and events follow thoughts. Take any situation or happening in your life, and go back to find what kind of thoughts preceded the event. You will find out that a particular event, followed particular thoughts.</p>
<p>Here are the reasons why visualization produces results:</p>
<p># We are an inseparable part of the creative Universal Mind. Our thoughts are projected into this omnipotent power, and cause its tremendous power act on our behalf. The Universal mind and us are partners in creating our life.</p>
<p>#  Everything in the Universe is interconnected. Each thought, action and event in the universe are connected, and influence each other. Each thought and action causes reactions and repercussions.</p>
<p>#  Everything in the Universe is energy. We see differences because each object has a different wavelength and density. We live in an ocean of energy. Each wave in this ocean influences the other waves. Thoughts, as part of this body of energy, work with the creative Universal energy and interact with it.</p>
<p>#  Thoughts are like a magnet, they attract similar thoughts and circumstances. Thinking one thought invites into the mind more similar thoughts and ideas. These thoughts tend to attract circumstances that are in accordance with them.</p>
<p>#  A clear mental image radiates from the mind of the one thinking it, and is transmitted to other minds. Whoever is receptive to this kind of thought may perceive it and act on it, thus being the agent to fulfill the desire.</p>
<p>#  By repeating the same thoughts day after day, the subconscious mind is driven to act on them. In this way habits and behavior are formed. The thoughts that sink into the subconscious mind drive people into corresponding action.</p>
<p>#  Each thought we think arouses an associated emotion. If the emotion is strong enough, it incites to action. Strong thoughts energized by emotions cause more energetic and definite action </p>
<p> than weak thoughts. Such an action brings results in accordance with the thought that prompted it.</p>
<p>#  Similar thoughts bring people together. When one person has a need, and the other can supply it, their thinking can bring them together in a surprising manner. This is what we call a coincidence.</p>
<p>Some time ago I have heard the following story, which can illustrate such a coincidence:</p>
<p>A woman has been searching for of a new job as a graphic designer. One morning, while going towards her car, she found out that she had a flat tire. Reluctantly she took the spare tire out, and prepared herself for the unpleasant task of changing it.</p>
<p>As she was trying to loosen the screws of the tire, a car stopped by, and the driver asked her if she needed any assistance. She accepted his help, and while changing the wheel they started to talk.</p>
<p>It turned out that he owned a graphics designing company, and needed desperately a qualified and experienced graphic designer. To her surprise and joy, he requested her to come to his office later during the day, with her certificates and recommendations for an interview.</p>
<p>She did not have to wait for the interview, as she was always carrying her certificates and recommendations with her. When he saw them, he was deeply impressed and hired her on the spot.</p>
<p>This meeting brought together two people who needed each other in some way. It was no coincidence, as one was thinking about hiring someone, and the other about finding a new job. Their thoughts brought them into meeting each other.</p>
<p>This is an excerpt from the book &#8220;Visualize and Achieve&#8221; by Remez Sasson</p>
<p>© Copyright Remez Sasson</p>
<p>Remez Sasson writes and teaches about self-improvement, positive thinking, creative visualization, success, mind power, spiritual growth and meditation. He is the author of several books, and the publisher of the biweekly ezine, &#8220;Consciousness and Success&#8221;.</p>
<p>Visit his website <a target="_blank" href="http://www.SuccessConsciousness.com">http://www.SuccessConsciousness.com</a>, and find many article, quotes and ebooks.</p>
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		<title>Emotional Baggage</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 May 2012 00:02:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[We all have them. It has many faces.We carry them around us, We store them in the remotest part of our brain, in the deepest chambers of our hearts.We have them in our extensive databaseof memories. Some are so close &#8230;<p class="read-more"><a href="http://www.moonsbeing.com/2012/05/17/Emotional-Baggage/">Read more &#187;</a></p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We all have them. It has many faces.We carry them around us, We store them in the remotest part of our brain, in the deepest chambers of our hearts.We have them in our extensive databaseof memories. Some are so close  to the heart, it brings out tears at the slightest provocation.  Others mayfeel anger, very deep resentments and may exhibitanti-social  or antagonistic behaviours .</p>
<p>Shadows  follow and haunt many, in their dreamsor waking hours, in unlikely places, unexpectedand intimidating Uncontrollable anger that can lead to violence can explode without warning.</p>
<p>Others will live in denial and spend their lives disconnected with the real world. Some will find blame in everyone except themselves; it’s alwaysthe other person’s fault. What  about victims andthe victimizers?</p>
<p>Many are lost searching for something, they cannot identify. Something is missing. A mass of lonely faces line  the crowded streets, sit in public places, inschools, agonize through the day in the workplace ,gather at churches perhaps to seek solace. Everyday.we see a vast sea of sad , depressed and unfriendly faces. Our roads  are open avenues to lash out their frustrations, thus uncontollable road rage.  Scary.</p>
<p>Emotional excess baggage demands a high price.There are those who succumb to the weight of thisburden, it gets too much to bear. They find no further reason to keep up the fight. Life loses itslustre, they find the world cruel, their existencemeaningless.To them, the fight over, if thereever was one.</p>
<p>There are many who go through life like driftwood ,let the current take them wherever, it does not matter anymore. Is our world this cruel?</p>
<p>What causes  these emotional suffering?</p>
<p>Broken dreams, broken relationships, </p>
<p> failed careers, lost hopes, betrayals, violations, childhood trauma,  or other forms of trauma ,add to this health issues. Social disgrace, financial disasters, poverty and addictions cast deep emotional scars to the most vulnerable members of the family and society.</p>
<p>Is our fast-paced society to blame? Add to thisthe pursuit of material success, endless toys,gadgetsand exponential advances in technology. Fragilerelationships, weakening  family ties, unreasonable expectations of self and of others add to the already overstuffed emotionalbaggage .Some carry them for a long, long time.</p>
<p>All is not lost, if we take a moment to listen to ourdeeper needs, beyond the physical . There is aflood of information, organizations, professionalsand other resources most communities offer. Deep emotional  suffering is a critical issue that canno longer be ignored, by society and by those who suffer.There is more to life.</p>
<p>Wisdom of the ages from different cultures, and beliefsare revived or  revised to suit the present psyche of society.It offers a holistic approach , involving the whole person’smind, body and spirit.</p>
<p>The wonders of medical and scientific research are vast,although pill-popping is not always the best answer.</p>
<p>Take stock of the weight of your emotional baggage.Healing is open to those who embrace it.</p>
<p>This article is free for electroni reprint in its entirety. Kindly advise me of the media used- email, e-zine, newsletteror website.</p>
<p>About the writer:</p>
<p>Bonnie Moss writes about spirituality, tools available to allto walk the path. Visit her website , a metaphysical site thatoffers information on tarot, crystals, aura, journalling and related topics.Her various  articles are published on high-end e-zines.She offers guidance and counselling through the insight andwisdom of tarot.</p>
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		<title>Be a Leader and Motivate Others!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 May 2012 14:33:00 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In Business, You need to Lead and Motivate</p>
<p>Motivation is often one of the hardest skills to learn in leadership. The title of leader can be given but it needs to be earned in the eyes of the team before respect is awarded. So ultimately, what makes a leader?</p>
<p>A Leader Demonstrates a Number of Traits</p>
<p>Many less-experienced and first-time managers think that leadership is telling everyone what to do. Fear of punishment is a short term solution, but you will find that it doesn&#8217;t enable the team to display excellent behavior.</p>
<p>Other managers try to do everything themselves. Although things get done, it is very inefficient. It is like learning to type with two fingers (hen pecking); it is slow, but can be accurate. If you have learned to type properly, every finger knows where the keys are. Speed and accuracy improve and your hands move as a </p>
<p> team. Think how motivating that is!</p>
<p>Displaying empathy is a key leadership trait. Understanding what your staff need and want is an important skill. This enables you to determine who should do which tasks and why they will do a great job. Learn this motivating skill and your team will succeed.</p>
<p>Ensure you reward good behavior and help the staff learn from mistakes. A good leader expects mistakes and demonstrates restraint when shows the best-practices. It is great to let your team participate in the planning for success. Allowing for feedback may even show you a better way to perform the task!</p>
<p><A target="_blank" href="http://www.my-business-guide.com">My Business Guide: Motivating Success for your business</A>  My Business Guide covers great motivational gifts and advice on leadership. A sample of the articles include <A target="_blank" href="http://www.my-business-guide.com/business-gifts-article.htm">My Business Guide: Business Gifts</A> and <A target="_blank" href="http://www.my-business-guide.com/gifts-for-doctors-article.htm">My Business Guide: Motivational Gifts for Doctors</A></p>
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		<title>Do You Have The Leadership Trait In You To Pick The Right Player For The Right Job?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 May 2012 21:31:00 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>An important aspect of leadership is having the ability to choose the right people for the right job.  This is a vital role that leaders will invariably be called upon to perform.  In any team sport, a great deal of time is spent in picking the right players for the game.  Selection is done keeping these factors in mind as player’s skill, form, the right place in the team and the likely opposition that the team will confront.  As in sports, in business too, leaders need to select the right team and players for a particular job, assign them specific tasks in line with their skills and proficiencies.  To field a match-winning team, you first need to understand the game to be played and the skills and abilities required to play it.  A football team cannot play baseball if you aim to win at the top.  Also, you have to place the right player at the right position.</p>
<p>In order to make the right choice, you first need to simplify the broader team goals into specific, individual tasks.  You can write down the task list and rank them in the order of priority.  You then have to analyze the competencies required to undertake each task.  Weighing the competencies of each team member and assigning tasks that matches their competencies, will help you in selecting the right candidate for the right job.</p>
<p>However, more often you will find that a person may excel in certain areas but may be found wanting in others. Or you may find an employee at a lower rung exhibiting similar skill power. You may find such gaps and overlaps, revealing the need for providing training in those areas where they are deficient.  Having back-ups for important tasks in case you lose key people, and ensuring to have a diverse team than with similar background are other critical factors involved in the process of selection.</p>
<p>Thus it will be obvious to you that recruitment is often an elaborate process that begins with advertising, screening resumes, administering test, interviewing candidates, selecting the best candidates and giving them needed training.  But the whole set of tasks can be made simpler by using Mind Map.</p>
<p>Using Mind Maps you can clearly outline </p>
<p> the specific job position under a main heading and note down all the tasks that the job entails under it.  You can then explore at length the traits that will be required for each of the tasks relating to the job assignment.  You can use particular color to distinguish fundamental abilities/traits from the general qualities.</p>
<p>Similarly, you can frame a simple outline on those skills and traits for testing the candidates.  Highlighting these in a different color, you can decide on the possible methodology that will best bring these out from the candidates, in order to make a proper evaluation.  You can then have the basic criteria, not just in terms of test ranking, but also in the soft skills that the candidate brings in, such as communication abilities, confidence level, attitude, disposition, etc.</p>
<p>Matching the hardcore competencies of a candidate with the soft skills, you can set a minimum standard to be eligible for interview.  Ranking the candidates on all criteria and choosing the best among them can be greatly facilitated by using Mind Map.  Utilizing symbols you can group all those candidates revealing the need for training, and those excelling in most areas for direct task handling.</p>
<p>When you integrate all these entire process of recruitment into one major Mind Map, you will, at a glance, gain a comprehensive picture of the full procedure involved.  You will have complete grip over your recruitment process of picking the right person for the right job.  Whenever you have new thoughts or ideas on a particular aspect, you can easily incorporate them and comprehend the links and associations between the various stages of recruitment.  All these and much more are possible with Mind Map.  Mind Map helps you to fine tune your recruitment process and ensure you are on the right track to pick the right candidate for the right job.</p>
<p>About the Author:</p>
<p>Dr. Vj Mariaraj is a Mind Map enthusiast and has been using Mind Maps for the past twelve years. He has created over 5650 Mind Maps. To learn more about mind mapping send an email to <a href="mailto:freemindmap@aweber.com">freemindmap@aweber.com</a> . He is the founder of BusinessBookMindMap.com that creates Mind Map Summaries of Businees Books. To learn more visit <a target="_blank" href="http://BusinessBookMindMap.com/mind-map.php?ea=14">http://BusinessBookMindMap.com/mind-map.php?ea=14</a></p>
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		<title>Eliminate Stress &#8211;  The Easy Way!</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 May 2012 04:17:00 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How can we eliminate stress? That is one of the most common questions asked in the twenty first century with one of the most elusive answers!</p>
<p>Well, in order to eliminate stress we should first realise what it is and where it comes from.</p>
<p>A typical dictionary definition explains stress as: “a force exerted when one body or body part presses on, pulls on, pushes against, or tends to compress or twist another body or body part.”</p>
<p>Well when we experience stress in our lives it often feels as though an external (or sometimes internal) force is pressing against our lives. This causes a great deal of anguish and frustration to the person suffering which mainly comes from unwanted harassing thoughts and negative emotions. These thoughts and emotions cause imbalance, to a greater or lesser degree, within the mind which if persisted in will eventually cause an imbalance in the body!</p>
<p>So when connected to people we can give a clearer definition of ‘Stress’ as “a state of heightened emotional and mental imbalance caused by internal or external forces in one’s life”.</p>
<p>So what internal or external forces can cause this emotional and mental imbalance in one’s life?</p>
<p>At first this appears to be an almost impossible question to answer. There can be numerous causes of stress. They range from the more trivial – having a bad day at work – to the more serious – dreading an impending catastrophic event. However, if we look at all the apparent causes of stress closely we can see the root cause, which is always the same! What is it? Well it’s very simple.</p>
<p>Stress is caused when we want things, situations or people to be different from they are! Basically, it’s <i> when we want things to be the way we want them to be but they just don’t change</i>. Remember the dictionary definition of stress &#8211;  “a force exerted when one body or body part presses on, pulls on, pushes against, or tends to compress or twist another body or body part.” We are desiring things to be different and when they stay the same (regardless of our actions) we experience stress. Our force of &#8216;will&#8217; i.e. our &#8216;wanting&#8217; the situation to change is exerting force on the situation. However, the situation remains the same and you know what happens when two forces in opposite directions collide &#8211; the stronger force wins! In such situations it is <i>our</i> desire that becomes compressed or twisted.</p>
<p>Ok, now we know that stress has its roots in ‘desire’ it becomes much easier to find a way to eliminate it.</p>
<p>Many mystical and religious traditions have told us that in order to achieve enlightenment or attain our fondest dreams we need <i>merely</i> achieve a desire-less state! Unfortunately not many tell us how to do this! Many tell us that in order to have something we must first stop wanting it!</p>
<p>This seems a strange concept but it does have solid foundations. If we desire something to the point of stressing ourselves about it, </p>
<p> then our behaviour becomes grasping and we have little or no chance of gaining that which we desire.</p>
<p>Fortunately though, there is a simple effective way of eliminating such grasping desires from your life called ‘releasing’. This technique is not new but it is highly effective and little known in the western world.</p>
<p>Let us look again at our new definition of stress and how we can use it to eliminate stress on the spot in any situation. Our definition states that stress is “a state of heightened emotional and mental imbalance caused by internal or external forces in one’s life”.  So how do we use this? Well firstly, the next time you experience a feeling of stress (try to pick a time when you are only slightly uptight until you get the hang of this), stop what you are doing for a moment and ask yourself “what do I want to be different in this situation/person/event?” – you are identifying your thoughts behind the stress.</p>
<p>Then, once you have identified these thoughts, ask yourself “how does that make me feel?” – you are identifying the emotions behind the thoughts.</p>
<p>Let’s take an example. You are at work and the boss wants you to get all your work finished by 5 o’ clock but you know that this is impossible but feel a mounting pressure to succeed at the task. You find yourself rushing around doing ten things at once all the time feeling more and more stressful. So, you ask the first question &#8211;  “what do I want to be different in this situation/person/event?” The answer may be, “I want my boss to stop putting me under pressure”. &#8211; You have identified some the thoughts behind the stress.</p>
<p>Next you ask “how does that make me feel?” The answer to this may be “I feel unappreciated!” – You have identified  <i>one</i> of the feelings behind your thoughts.</p>
<p>Now for one moment stop trying to suppress that emotion and fully feel it. Allow yourself to delve into that feeling and experience it and then ‘let it go’. Imagine it is a spent force escaping through your stomach. Do this several times, as it takes seconds to perform. Within a few repetitions you will start to feel your stress ease away effortlessly. Keep asking the questions as there may be several reasons behind your stress or you may need to ‘release’ a particularly deep-seated emotion a few times before it is gone. Try it, you may just be surprised at the results!</p>
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		<title>Using Your Body To Strengthen Your Mind</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[For thousands of years, physical disciplines like yoga, Tai Chi and Sufi Dancing have been said to increase mental and spiritual powers. If this is true, how might one explain this, and even better, how can we use this fact, &#8230;<p class="read-more"><a href="http://www.moonsbeing.com/2012/05/13/Using-Your-Body-To-Strengthen-Your-Mind/">Read more &#187;</a></p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For thousands of years, physical disciplines like yoga, Tai Chi and Sufi Dancing have been said to increase mental and spiritual powers.  If this is true, how might one explain this, and even better, how can we use this fact, practically, to enhance our lives as artists, business people, parents, and partners?</p>
<p>First, we have to strip away the mysticism from the activity.  Not that these activities have no esoteric aspect, but rather that we have to approach them on the most down-to-earth level.  The higher the tree, the deeper the roots. The taller the building, the deeper the foundations.  If you want to soar, be certain that your tether is strong.  So we need to start with a simple, physiological explanation (if possible!) and then suggest a way that this ties in to advanced artistic accomplishment,  relationship skills, intellectual clarity, and spiritual growth.</p>
<p>My own enlightenment in this regard came from studying the work of Coach Scott Sonnon, the first American martial artist to train in the former Soviet Union.  While there, this brilliant man met Russian sports and performance scientists who had been studying indigenous health system in the Ural Mountains for a century.  There, they found movement and wellness concepts equivalent to anything in China or India.  They shared many of these concepts with Sonnon, and invited him to share them in turn with Americans.  Over the years, Coach Sonnon has created hundreds of books, videos and essays on his interpretations of this core knowledge.</p>
<p>Perhaps the single most important in terms of Body-Mind is what he calls the “Flow State Performance Spiral.”  In order to relate this breakthrough thinking in such a short essay, we’ll have to condense considerably:</p>
<p>1) All physical technique is composed of three aspects: breathing, movement, and structure.</p>
<p>2) Each of these aspects is controlled by the other two (breath is created by movement and structure, etc.)</p>
<p>3) Stress “dis-integrates” this structure.  In other words, when you are under stress, the physiological signs will manifest in your breathing rate or shallowness, your posture, your muscle tension.  This is why lie detectors work!</p>
<p>Before he died, Hans Selye, the creator of the “stress” concept, said   that he had misspoken himself, that it is not stress that hurts us, it is strain.  Stress is the pressure we are under.  But strain is the degree to which that stress warps us out of true.</p>
<p>Stress is not the enemy.  In fact, when handled healthfully, it is the primary trigger for growth.  So the key is to avoid strain.</p>
<p>Let’s skip around a bit to a truth about artistic and intellectual pursuits: your ability to utilize your intelligence, education, skills </p>
<p> or talents will be in direct proportion to your ability to maintain “flow” under stress.  Or to put it another way, in life, we are rewarded for how much stress we can handle without folding.  Writer’s block, for instance, is nothing but a poor reaction to performance stress.</p>
<p>Combining these ideas, what we have is that mental and emotional balance under stress leads to excellence.  Combine this with the fact that learning to cope with physical stress develops skills that are tremendously applicable to the mental arena.  The most vulnerable portion of the “Flow State” triad (breath, movement, structure) is breathing.  Proper breathing will be degraded by stress before you can detect it in posture or muscle tension. This is one of the reasons breath control is addressed in most religions and spiritual disciplines, whether this is through pranayama (yoga), exercise, hymns, ritual prayers, dance, or sacred postures.</p>
<p>A good yoga teacher, for instance, will place the student in a posture sufficiently extreme to force total concentration.  When the student learns to relax and focus, that posture becomes relatively easy, and a more extreme posture is given. The point is to teach the student to monitor their own internal process.  Fine martial arts or breathing meditation teachers use similar techniques.</p>
<p>The student learns to recognize the early signs of strain, and to dissipate them.  NOTHING in life creates more stress than lack of oxygen, and learning to remain calm in the midst of oxygen debt will teach you to remain calm when the children are screaming, when your boss is on the rampage, when someone cuts you off on the freeway.</p>
<p>Or when you have a writing deadline, or when insecurity and fear hammers at the door of your resolve.</p>
<p>Deliberately practicing a physical discipline to enhance this quality of calmness and centeredness, while simultaneously working toward goals balanced in body, mind, and spirit, exposes you to the currents of life while helping you develop the skills and strategies necessary to excel.  This, over time, leads to excellence, even in a purely mental arena.</p>
<p>There are numerous disciplines that will teach proper breathing under stress, and this article has listed a few.  If you  wish to reach your maximum potential as a mental, spiritual, and emotional being, seek one of  these techniques out, and integrate it into your life.  It is one of the best investments you could ever make in your future.</p>
<p>Steven Barnes is a bestselling author and performance coach who has lectured on storytelling and human consciousness at UCLA, Mensa, and the Smithsonian Institute.  He created the Lifewriting high-performance system for writers and readers.  <a target="_blank" href="http://www.lifewriting.biz/">www.lifewriting.biz</a> and <a target="_blank" href="http://www.lifewrite.com">http://www.lifewrite.com</a></p>
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